well i s'pose if all ya want is sex then sure why not be an ass. the girls might respond to it but they may not be so nice either.

i love nice guys. but im not looking for just a f*ck. lol so i guess that doesnt count eh. lol.

so i guess it depends on what you want. and it sounds like all ya want is to get laid. lol

Okay, first of all, it's not the nice guy versus the asshole. That's a misconception. It may seem like the truth of things, but it's certain characteristics of nice guys versus certain characteristics of assholes that are the reality.

They are self-confidence and assertiveness. Nice guys are too worried about offending or just shy enough to NOT ask or NOT assert themselves. Nice guys frequently are nice because they want people to like them. That need can spring from a lack of self confidence.

Assholes are assertive for a number of reasons, and seem to drip with self confidence, however misplaced it might be. It is these qualities which make the members of the opposite sex, both male and female take notice.

We as humans are drawn to self-confidence. We tend to acquiesce to assertiveness. IF I turn to someone randomly and ask them politely, yet firmly to pick something up, 9 times out of 10 they do it. When I ask a woman to come walk with me, she does. I am a gentleman. But, that does not mean I am a pushover. I do what I want, as long as it doesn't hurt or offend others.

You can be polite and assertive. You can be self-confident without being an asshole. You can be firm without being demanding, and you can ask for what you want without seeming needy.

And it is NOT that women are attracted to guys who don't want them. It is that women are attracted to the power that a man has when he can turn and walk away. Not that you ever need to use it, but just that you have it.

And if "getting laid" is your goal. Don't want it. I don't mean don't act like you want it. I mean precisely what I said. Don't want sex. IF the only reason you want to spend time with a woman is to "get laid", then they will know and you will be filed away with the nameless thousands of horny fools who treat women like chattel. Rather find those amazing qualities of the women you have the pleasure of keeping company with and revel in them.

Why should they sleep with you? What do you offer that a hundred other men won't also offer them? What is it that makes you special? And worthy? If you don't know, find it. Once you find it, believe it.

Be ready to NOT have sex. Better yet, be ready to have a wonderful time and just go home. And if you want to talk to someone, go talk to them. If you want to kiss them, ask them if you can. If you wish to play with them, ask. I don't care how modern or progressive or different you might think the dating scene is, an assertive, confident man will always do better than a shy, nice guy who doesn't ask. And a gentleman will do better than an asshole in the long run.

one of my favorite quotes from one of my favorite movies - "The world is full of guys, Lloyd. Be a man."